Vocab #2

High school relationships...ugh where do i start!!!! Not all, but most of the relationships in High School are pointless and stupid. Girls see high school relationships on tv and think that it's what they need to do in high school too!! The urbane boys, a.k.a the players,  know exactly how to get any and every girl they want. It truly is a vicious cycle. First the girl (lets call her Dana) sees the guy (lets call him Kevin), finds him to be amazingly attractive, and instantly starts to muse on how her and Kevin could be a perfect couple.Kevin eventually flirts with Dana  and they are all of a sudden "talking". Dana goes around bragging about how her and Kevin our perfect for each other, hoping to perpetuate their relationship. Blinded by what she thinks might be "love", Dana doesn't realize that Kevin only wants one thing from Dana. Dana doesn't want Kevin to leave her for someone else so she shows craven behavior by letting  Kevin basically coerce her into doing what he wants her to do. Once Kevin gets what he wants, he drops Dana and moves on to the next girl. To him, the whole relationship with Dana is negligible and he wont want anything to do with her. He got what he wanted anyways right? Dana is still in "love" with him and will try so hard to get him back, but Kevin will only alienate the thought of him and Dana becoming a "thing" again. Whoever the next female is, she will automatically be an adversary to Dana. Eventually, Dana will realize that the whole relationship was a complete mistake and will want to delete any memory that had to do with her and Kevin. They will become strangers and wont speak again. She will also realize that the whole situation was just a big waste of tears and time. High school "love" always seems to cause unnecessary stress and drama that can simply be prevented by just avoiding the whole idea of "love". Besides, being in high school is only a sojourn and we will go our separate ways afterwards. I exhilarate any and every girl who will focus on education and what they want in life, verses worrying about falling in love with a guy. I've yet to have a boyfriend and as of now, I plan to keep it that way. Boys seem to be a distraction and definitely something that can wait until I am stable with my career and life! Sure, I may sound like a "nerd" or not too "hip" with what every one else is doing... but hey I'd rather be an outcast than be a crying mess over a boy!!